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toy: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.” The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent “I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.” I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
toy: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


THANK YOU

I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.”
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

“I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.”
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychologica...

toy: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.” The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent “I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.” I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
toy: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


THANK YOU

I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.”
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

“I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.”
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychologica...

toy: Elliot’s owner shares what he looked like at 4 weeks vs full grown, with his favorite toy (via)
toy: Elliot’s owner shares what he looked like at 4 weeks vs full grown, with his favorite toy (via)

Elliot’s owner shares what he looked like at 4 weeks vs full grown, with his favorite toy (via)

toy: rescue chonk has his very own support toy while he exercises (via)
toy: rescue chonk has his very own support toy while he exercises (via)

rescue chonk has his very own support toy while he exercises (via)

toy: angryzombiekitten: Mochi Cat Kitten Squishy Squeeze Cute Healing Toy Kawaii Collection Stress Reliever Gift Decor Check out HERE20% OFF coupon code: tumblr-0506
toy: angryzombiekitten:

Mochi Cat Kitten Squishy Squeeze Cute Healing Toy Kawaii Collection Stress Reliever Gift Decor Check out HERE20% OFF coupon code: tumblr-0506

angryzombiekitten: Mochi Cat Kitten Squishy Squeeze Cute Healing Toy Kawaii Collection Stress Reliever Gift Decor Check out HERE20% OFF...

toy: Little Otter with his toy stuffy to go (via)
toy: Little Otter with his toy stuffy to go (via)

Little Otter with his toy stuffy to go (via)

toy: Man with toy that repeats words gets pulled over and can’t keep it together
toy: Man with toy that repeats words gets pulled over and can’t keep it together

Man with toy that repeats words gets pulled over and can’t keep it together

toy: My girlfriend, Bonnie, is convinced she was the inspiration for the Toy Story character. Here’s a picture of her from 30 years ago
toy: My girlfriend, Bonnie, is convinced she was the inspiration for the Toy Story character. Here’s a picture of her from 30 years ago

My girlfriend, Bonnie, is convinced she was the inspiration for the Toy Story character. Here’s a picture of her from 30 years ago

toy: My nephew and his first sprinkler toy
toy: My nephew and his first sprinkler toy

My nephew and his first sprinkler toy

toy: My girlfriend, Bonnie, is convinced she was the inspiration for the Toy Story character. Here’s a picture of her from 30 years ago
toy: My girlfriend, Bonnie, is convinced she was the inspiration for the Toy Story character. Here’s a picture of her from 30 years ago

My girlfriend, Bonnie, is convinced she was the inspiration for the Toy Story character. Here’s a picture of her from 30 years ago

toy: My nephew and his first sprinkler toy
toy: My nephew and his first sprinkler toy

My nephew and his first sprinkler toy

toy: My nephew and his first sprinkler toy
toy: My nephew and his first sprinkler toy

My nephew and his first sprinkler toy

toy: My nephew and his first sprinkler toy
toy: My nephew and his first sprinkler toy

My nephew and his first sprinkler toy

toy: Firulais just wants to get his stuffed toy back
toy: Firulais just wants to get his stuffed toy back

Firulais just wants to get his stuffed toy back

toy: Firulais just wants to get his stuffed toy back
toy: Firulais just wants to get his stuffed toy back

Firulais just wants to get his stuffed toy back

toy: I am happy with my toy car
toy: I am happy with my toy car

I am happy with my toy car

toy: I am happy with my toy car by mysterious_blade MORE MEMES
toy: I am happy with my toy car by mysterious_blade
MORE MEMES

I am happy with my toy car by mysterious_blade MORE MEMES

toy: I mean, she is a toy…
toy: I mean, she is a toy…

I mean, she is a toy…

toy: toy reviews… by Melkeus MORE MEMES
toy: toy reviews… by Melkeus
MORE MEMES

toy reviews… by Melkeus MORE MEMES

toy: toy reviews…
toy: toy reviews…

toy reviews…

toy: Crisis in Toy Story Universe!
toy: Crisis in Toy Story Universe!

Crisis in Toy Story Universe!

toy: ‘Toy Story Present Memes’ Riff On Sneaky & Relatable Truths
toy: ‘Toy Story Present Memes’ Riff On Sneaky & Relatable Truths

‘Toy Story Present Memes’ Riff On Sneaky & Relatable Truths

toy: The joy of a toy
toy: The joy of a toy

The joy of a toy

toy: My beautiful dog ace just chomping on his toy
toy: My beautiful dog ace just chomping on his toy

My beautiful dog ace just chomping on his toy

toy: There’s something really wrong about these children’s toy blocks, I just can’t quite put my finger on it...
toy: There’s something really wrong about these children’s toy blocks, I just can’t quite put my finger on it...

There’s something really wrong about these children’s toy blocks, I just can’t quite put my finger on it...

toy: Remember these. My parents wouldn’t get these for us so we just had the shitty McDonald toy versions that just lit up
toy: Remember these. My parents wouldn’t get these for us so we just had the shitty McDonald toy versions that just lit up

Remember these. My parents wouldn’t get these for us so we just had the shitty McDonald toy versions that just lit up

toy: In Toy Story (1995), Sid tortured Woody not by burning Woody with a magnifying glass, but by magnifying his bad teeth for Woody to see.
toy: In Toy Story (1995), Sid tortured Woody not by burning Woody with a magnifying glass, but by magnifying his bad teeth for Woody to see.

In Toy Story (1995), Sid tortured Woody not by burning Woody with a magnifying glass, but by magnifying his bad teeth for Woody to see.

toy: Our cat didn't like the Toothless toy
toy: Our cat didn't like the Toothless toy

Our cat didn't like the Toothless toy

toy: A nice toy for the kids and for the adults!
toy: A nice toy for the kids and for the adults!

A nice toy for the kids and for the adults!

toy: My little pupper just got a haircut and hes with his favorite toy
toy: My little pupper just got a haircut and hes with his favorite toy

My little pupper just got a haircut and hes with his favorite toy

toy: Downvotes aren't a toy, guys!
toy: Downvotes aren't a toy, guys!

Downvotes aren't a toy, guys!

toy: A picture of my dog cuddling with his favourite toy
toy: A picture of my dog cuddling with his favourite toy

A picture of my dog cuddling with his favourite toy

toy: This Is Zen Next To Her Favorite Toy Scoobie
toy: This Is Zen Next To Her Favorite Toy Scoobie

This Is Zen Next To Her Favorite Toy Scoobie

toy: He fell asleep with his toy tire in his mouth
toy: He fell asleep with his toy tire in his mouth

He fell asleep with his toy tire in his mouth

toy: Not a Toy Story fan anymore
toy: Not a Toy Story fan anymore

Not a Toy Story fan anymore

toy: Toy Story is full of pedo swirls!
toy: Toy Story is full of pedo swirls!

Toy Story is full of pedo swirls!

toy: An edit I made of little goblin jr. based on an unused Burger King toy design
toy: An edit I made of little goblin jr. based on an unused Burger King toy design

An edit I made of little goblin jr. based on an unused Burger King toy design

toy: In Toy Story 3(2010), one of Bonnie’s toys is a Totoro. This comes from the Studio Ghibli movie, My Neighbor Totoro
toy: In Toy Story 3(2010), one of Bonnie’s toys is a Totoro. This comes from the Studio Ghibli movie, My Neighbor Totoro

In Toy Story 3(2010), one of Bonnie’s toys is a Totoro. This comes from the Studio Ghibli movie, My Neighbor Totoro

toy: Ah yes, my favorite toy
toy: Ah yes, my favorite toy

Ah yes, my favorite toy

toy: just let him keep the toy, Karen
toy: just let him keep the toy, Karen

just let him keep the toy, Karen

toy: just let him keep the toy, Karen
toy: just let him keep the toy, Karen

just let him keep the toy, Karen

toy: evas-idiot-box: retiredmahoushoujo: ad for a chinese sex toy
toy: evas-idiot-box:
retiredmahoushoujo:
ad for a chinese sex toy

evas-idiot-box: retiredmahoushoujo: ad for a chinese sex toy

toy: “Thanks for my new toy Mom” - Odin “The Smug GQ puppy” 😏
toy: “Thanks for my new toy Mom” - Odin “The Smug GQ puppy” 😏

“Thanks for my new toy Mom” - Odin “The Smug GQ puppy” 😏

toy: In Toy Story 3, Mr Potato Head turned himself into a pickle and it's the funniest shit I ever saw.
toy: In Toy Story 3, Mr Potato Head turned himself into a pickle and it's the funniest shit I ever saw.

In Toy Story 3, Mr Potato Head turned himself into a pickle and it's the funniest shit I ever saw.

toy: This is the only way she will hold her favorite toy
toy: This is the only way she will hold her favorite toy

This is the only way she will hold her favorite toy

toy: String, the classic cat toy
toy: String, the classic cat toy

String, the classic cat toy