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Mad: When shes mad
Mad: When shes mad

When shes mad

Mad: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU Iā€™ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and ā€œrespect for other peopleā€™s things.ā€ If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always sayĀ ā€œI bought them that toyā€ orĀ ā€œmy sister gave that to them.ā€ The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. Itā€™s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your childā€™s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but hereā€™s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because Iā€™d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didnā€™t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldnā€™t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someoneā€™s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, ā€œOh, my bad,ā€ and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someoneā€™s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God Iā€™ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent ā€œI say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.ā€YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandmaā€™s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: ā€œAre you hurt?ā€ and when I apologized profusely she said ā€œIā€™m just glad you werenā€™t hurt.ā€ I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dadā€™s first response was ā€œDid you get cut?ā€ the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest ā€œpunishmentā€ from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friendsā€™ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didnā€™t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of ā€œIā€™m glad youā€™re safe and I want to help you learn from this.ā€ And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. Itā€™s likeā€¦ we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
Mad: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU Iā€™ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and ā€œrespect for other peopleā€™s things.ā€ If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always sayĀ ā€œI bought them that toyā€ orĀ ā€œmy sister gave that to them.ā€ The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. Itā€™s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your childā€™s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but hereā€™s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because Iā€™d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didnā€™t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldnā€™t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someoneā€™s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, ā€œOh, my bad,ā€ and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someoneā€™s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God Iā€™ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent ā€œI say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.ā€YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandmaā€™s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: ā€œAre you hurt?ā€ and when I apologized profusely she said ā€œIā€™m just glad you werenā€™t hurt.ā€ I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dadā€™s first response was ā€œDid you get cut?ā€ the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest ā€œpunishmentā€ from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friendsā€™ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didnā€™t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of ā€œIā€™m glad youā€™re safe and I want to help you learn from this.ā€ And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. Itā€™s likeā€¦ we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychologica...

Mad: Oh my goodness, now this is a pool party I wouldnā€™t mind attending.Ā (Source)
Mad: Oh my goodness, now this is a pool party I wouldnā€™t mind attending.Ā (Source)

Oh my goodness, now this is a pool party I wouldnā€™t mind attending.Ā (Source)

Mad: srsfunny: ā€œIf you tell the truth, we wonā€™t be madā€
Mad: srsfunny: ā€œIf you tell the truth, we wonā€™t be madā€

srsfunny: ā€œIf you tell the truth, we wonā€™t be madā€

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Mad: you fancy me mad ronson

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Mad: ofcabbagezandkingz: whyyoustabbedme: White people about to be mad af reblog Iā€™ve never seen a more accurate statement than this one
Mad: ofcabbagezandkingz: whyyoustabbedme: White people about to be mad af reblog Iā€™ve never seen a more accurate statement than this one

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Mad: its not relevant butā€¦.. its not relevant by I_AM_NOT_MAD MORE MEMES
Mad: its not relevant butā€¦.. its not relevant by I_AM_NOT_MAD MORE MEMES

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Mad: Elon got madā€¦ by Theinfernity MORE MEMES
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Elon got madā€¦ by Theinfernity MORE MEMES

Mad: So mad he did arts & craftsā€¦
Mad: So mad he did arts & craftsā€¦

So mad he did arts & craftsā€¦

Mad: Mad lad Dark Souls
Mad: Mad lad Dark Souls

Mad lad Dark Souls

Mad: No Matter How We Protest They Will be Mad by etw2016 MORE MEMES
Mad: No Matter How We Protest They Will be Mad by etw2016 MORE MEMES

No Matter How We Protest They Will be Mad by etw2016 MORE MEMES

Mad: No Matter How We Protest They Will be Mad
Mad: No Matter How We Protest They Will be Mad

No Matter How We Protest They Will be Mad

Mad: How MAD is She??
Mad: How MAD is She??

How MAD is She??

Mad: I would be mad too
Mad: I would be mad too

I would be mad too

Mad: How MAD is She??
Mad: How MAD is She??

How MAD is She??

Mad: And who are better friends than the Aztecs? by Mad_Squid MORE MEMES
Mad: And who are better friends than the Aztecs? by Mad_Squid MORE MEMES

And who are better friends than the Aztecs? by Mad_Squid MORE MEMES

Mad: Theyā€™re just so cute when they mad though. by No1UNeau MORE MEMES
Mad: Theyā€™re just so cute when they mad though. by No1UNeau MORE MEMES

Theyā€™re just so cute when they mad though. by No1UNeau MORE MEMES

Mad: Theyā€™re just so cute when they mad though.
Mad: Theyā€™re just so cute when they mad though.

Theyā€™re just so cute when they mad though.

Mad: this is such a dumb joke and Iā€™m mad at myself for coming up with it
Mad: this is such a dumb joke and Iā€™m mad at myself for coming up with it

this is such a dumb joke and Iā€™m mad at myself for coming up with it

Mad: this is such a dumb joke and Iā€™m mad at myself for coming up with it by okaynoodle MORE MEMES
Mad: this is such a dumb joke and Iā€™m mad at myself for coming up with it by okaynoodle MORE MEMES

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Mad: She mad
Mad: She mad

She mad

Mad: How MAD is She??
Mad: How MAD is She??

How MAD is She??

Mad: How MAD is She??
Mad: How MAD is She??

How MAD is She??

Mad: Perry gets mad hoes
Mad: Perry gets mad hoes

Perry gets mad hoes

Mad: kimmiekou: Iā€™m mad I laughed
Mad: kimmiekou: Iā€™m mad I laughed

kimmiekou: Iā€™m mad I laughed

Mad: ā€œIf you tell the truth, we wonā€™t be madā€
Mad: ā€œIf you tell the truth, we wonā€™t be madā€

ā€œIf you tell the truth, we wonā€™t be madā€

Mad: ā€œIf you tell the truth, we wonā€™t be madā€ by Shirojasha MORE MEMES
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ā€œIf you tell the truth, we wonā€™t be madā€ by Shirojasha MORE MEMES

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Mad: Cookie And Cream: SUPER Mad
Mad: Cookie And Cream: SUPER Mad

Cookie And Cream: SUPER Mad

Mad: Iā€™m honestly mad at myself for this one
Mad: Iā€™m honestly mad at myself for this one

Iā€™m honestly mad at myself for this one

Mad: clockworkrobotic: bigancestorenergy: ouma-anti: whatjordylikes: danielle-mertina: blackqueerblog: Some parents really donā€™t understand the difference between actual discipline and hurting your kids. This teaches a kid nothing except needing to hide what makes them happy because theyā€™re scared their parents will destroy it. Wowā€¦what a terrible parent. Minecraft is A LOT of work, diligence, and creativity. The parent should have been encouraging that. And why does a 9 year old need to wake up every day at 7 am during a pandemic? Whatā€™s wrong with this person? I can foresee an estranged relationship in the future. Because this parent is out of their minds and more interested in exacting punitive control than being a loving caregiver. Y'all wonder why some kids are the way they are? This is it. why on earth does a NINE YEAR OLD CHILD has to wake up at fucking 7 am during a pandemic? also children may require up to TWELVE HOURS of sleep heā€™s not being defiantā€”without the threat of a ridiculous and unnatural hour he MUST be awake at heā€™s actually following his natural circadian rhythm which is actually HEALTHIER for him what theyā€™ve done is broken his trust in a MAJOR way. he does not feel safe or in control. which is why he is refusing meals. honestly? if they keep this behavior upā€”let alone just not apologizing and finding the save file for his gameā€”heā€™s gonna develop some dangerous coping skills like yknow. An eating disorder. Dissociation. Self harm. Iā€™m not being hyperbolic. this is literally how it starts. This is the second time this week Iā€™ve seen a story like this (the first being the boyfriend destroying his girlfriendā€™s AC island over an argument) and it makes me think ā€“ how is this ANY different to someone destroying a physical piece of art someoneā€™s made: ripping up their sketchbook, breaking ceramics, cutting up cosplays? If this person had come forward with a question likeĀ ā€œmy son wouldnā€™t get out of bed so I broke the birdbox he madeā€ there wouldnā€™t be ANY question whether this was abusive behaviour. Thereā€™s an inherent disconnect with how we talk about theĀ ā€œvalueā€ of virtual items/creations in video games: something about the way that these things arenā€™t tangible in the conventional sense makes them somehow less valuable than something everyone can hold and observe and appreciate. Think about the amount of ā€œfunny gamer rageā€ videos out there that are people upset over losing WoW saves and the likes: game saves are often things people have put hundreds of hours into, they have value to that person and are representative of their own dedication. Hell, Iā€™m really bummed at the moment over not having access to some of my BL2 saves (I canā€™t travel to get my PS4 from uni), and I know Iā€™d be upset if I lost them forever.Ā  Video games are a massive escape mechanism for a lot of people especially right now, and putting time and effort into particularly building games is a constructive and creative outlet that gives people a feeling of accomplishment (and letā€™s be real itā€™s a lot more practical than having a house full of lego). Yet thereā€™s still this weird stigma attached to them, thisĀ ā€œitā€™s just a gameā€ mentality that leads people to be easily dismissive of othersā€™ feelings over losing progress. Destroyed your girlfriendā€™s AC island, which she put hundreds of hours into building? Whatever, itā€™s just a game. Deleted your kidā€™s minecraft file, which he spent an entire year working on? Whatever, itā€™s just a game, why are you so mad? Itā€™s not a real thing, itā€™s just some numbers hiding behind fancy computer graphics! Actions like this are intentional, targeted destruction of another personā€™s property - property they have created themselves -Ā  by an adult who knew what they were doingĀ and we should NOT treat them as anything other than that, regardless of medium.
Mad: clockworkrobotic: bigancestorenergy: ouma-anti: whatjordylikes: danielle-mertina: blackqueerblog: Some parents really donā€™t understand the difference between actual discipline and hurting your kids. This teaches a kid nothing except needing to hide what makes them happy because theyā€™re scared their parents will destroy it. Wowā€¦what a terrible parent. Minecraft is A LOT of work, diligence, and creativity. The parent should have been encouraging that. And why does a 9 year old need to wake up every day at 7 am during a pandemic? Whatā€™s wrong with this person? I can foresee an estranged relationship in the future. Because this parent is out of their minds and more interested in exacting punitive control than being a loving caregiver. Y'all wonder why some kids are the way they are? This is it. why on earth does a NINE YEAR OLD CHILD has to wake up at fucking 7 am during a pandemic? also children may require up to TWELVE HOURS of sleep heā€™s not being defiantā€”without the threat of a ridiculous and unnatural hour he MUST be awake at heā€™s actually following his natural circadian rhythm which is actually HEALTHIER for him what theyā€™ve done is broken his trust in a MAJOR way. he does not feel safe or in control. which is why he is refusing meals. honestly? if they keep this behavior upā€”let alone just not apologizing and finding the save file for his gameā€”heā€™s gonna develop some dangerous coping skills like yknow. An eating disorder. Dissociation. Self harm. Iā€™m not being hyperbolic. this is literally how it starts. This is the second time this week Iā€™ve seen a story like this (the first being the boyfriend destroying his girlfriendā€™s AC island over an argument) and it makes me think ā€“ how is this ANY different to someone destroying a physical piece of art someoneā€™s made: ripping up their sketchbook, breaking ceramics, cutting up cosplays? If this person had come forward with a question likeĀ ā€œmy son wouldnā€™t get out of bed so I broke the birdbox he madeā€ there wouldnā€™t be ANY question whether this was abusive behaviour. Thereā€™s an inherent disconnect with how we talk about theĀ ā€œvalueā€ of virtual items/creations in video games: something about the way that these things arenā€™t tangible in the conventional sense makes them somehow less valuable than something everyone can hold and observe and appreciate. Think about the amount of ā€œfunny gamer rageā€ videos out there that are people upset over losing WoW saves and the likes: game saves are often things people have put hundreds of hours into, they have value to that person and are representative of their own dedication. Hell, Iā€™m really bummed at the moment over not having access to some of my BL2 saves (I canā€™t travel to get my PS4 from uni), and I know Iā€™d be upset if I lost them forever.Ā  Video games are a massive escape mechanism for a lot of people especially right now, and putting time and effort into particularly building games is a constructive and creative outlet that gives people a feeling of accomplishment (and letā€™s be real itā€™s a lot more practical than having a house full of lego). Yet thereā€™s still this weird stigma attached to them, thisĀ ā€œitā€™s just a gameā€ mentality that leads people to be easily dismissive of othersā€™ feelings over losing progress. Destroyed your girlfriendā€™s AC island, which she put hundreds of hours into building? Whatever, itā€™s just a game. Deleted your kidā€™s minecraft file, which he spent an entire year working on? Whatever, itā€™s just a game, why are you so mad? Itā€™s not a real thing, itā€™s just some numbers hiding behind fancy computer graphics! Actions like this are intentional, targeted destruction of another personā€™s property - property they have created themselves -Ā  by an adult who knew what they were doingĀ and we should NOT treat them as anything other than that, regardless of medium.

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Mad: Absolute mad lad

Absolute mad lad

Mad: Homie woulda had mad splinters in his mouth by JayZGatsby MORE MEMES
Mad: Homie woulda had mad splinters in his mouth by JayZGatsby MORE MEMES

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Mad: Homie woulda had mad splinters in his mouth
Mad: Homie woulda had mad splinters in his mouth

Homie woulda had mad splinters in his mouth

Mad: hoes mad
Mad: hoes mad

hoes mad

Mad: johnnyā€“guitar: iwannabeadored: bruhless: Wow thatā€™s the kind of thing I like to see heā€™s not even mad he just sits back down
Mad: johnnyā€“guitar: iwannabeadored: bruhless: Wow thatā€™s the kind of thing I like to see heā€™s not even mad he just sits back down

johnnyā€“guitar: iwannabeadored: bruhless: Wow thatā€™s the kind of thing I like to see heā€™s not even mad he just sits back down

Mad: ā€œIā€™m not mad, iā€™m hust disappointed.ā€ -Pornhub ARIA, 2020. by Emotive_boi_uwu MORE MEMES
Mad: ā€œIā€™m not mad, iā€™m hust disappointed.ā€ -Pornhub ARIA, 2020. by Emotive_boi_uwu MORE MEMES

ā€œIā€™m not mad, iā€™m hust disappointed.ā€ -Pornhub ARIA, 2020. by Emotive_boi_uwu MORE MEMES

Mad: ā€œIā€™m not mad, iā€™m hust disappointed.ā€ -Pornhub ARIA, 2020.
Mad: ā€œIā€™m not mad, iā€™m hust disappointed.ā€ -Pornhub ARIA, 2020.

ā€œIā€™m not mad, iā€™m hust disappointed.ā€ -Pornhub ARIA, 2020.

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Mad: Mad dirt

Mad dirt

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Mad: Yall just mad that daddy Dankula has a bigger cock than you šŸ˜ by BoogAPoop2020 MORE MEMES

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Mad: People with Mad Skills
Mad: People with Mad Skills

People with Mad Skills

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Mad: Mad lad dog dads unite (|||)

Mad lad dog dads unite (|||)

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Mad: Mad frog

Mad frog

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low effort by BRUH_THESE_HOES_MAD MORE MEMES

Mad: Mad respect for all the health care professionals all over the world
Mad: Mad respect for all the health care professionals all over the world

Mad respect for all the health care professionals all over the world